There was a time I used to think I was the “young one” in most rooms. That is, until I started spending more time around Gen-Z. Suddenly, I became the one talking about MSN Messenger, dial-up internet, and a world before influencers and endless scrolling.
But instead of holding on to my millennial pride, I decided to listen, observe—and every now and then—laugh at myself.
Being a millennial in the Gulf comes with its own flavour: we were raised with values rooted in tradition, community, and a strong work ethic. But our Gen-Z siblings, cousins, and colleagues? They bring a different kind of energy to the table. One that’s bold, intentional, and refreshingly real.
Here are six surprisingly profound lessons I’ve learnt from them:
1. Be Real, Not Just Right
Back in the day, everything had to look perfect—from Instagram filters to carefully chosen captions. In our part of the world, image often matters, and it’s not uncommon to feel like you have to present a polished version of your life.
But Gen-Z? They’ll post blurry selfies, random thoughts, and unfiltered moments without blinking. They’ve shown me that authenticity builds deeper connections than aesthetics ever could.
Millennial me: “Should I fix my hair before we take this?”
Gen-Z friend: “Nope. It’s perfect like that.”
2. Boundaries Are a Form of Respect
In Gulf culture, saying yes is often second nature. We’re raised to be polite, helpful, and self-sacrificing. But I’ve seen Gen-Z draw lines—with kindness, not attitude.
Whether it’s saying no to burnout, asking for flexible hours, or skipping a gathering for mental rest, they understand that protecting your energy isn’t selfish—it’s smart.
Their version of self-care is grounded, not indulgent. And it’s something we could all benefit from.
3. Talk About Money (Yes, Even Here)
Money talk? For many of us growing up in the region, it was a private topic—discussed behind closed doors or not at all.
But Gen-Z? They talk about salaries, savings apps, side hustles, and crypto strategies without hesitation. They demystify finance and push transparency, especially in workplaces and friendships.
And honestly? It’s refreshing. It’s empowering. And it’s time.
4. There’s Strength in Vulnerability
We were often taught to “stay strong” and keep things bottled up. Appearances mattered, and emotional struggles weren’t exactly dinner table conversation.
Gen-Z wears their heart on their sleeve—and not for attention, but for connection. They talk openly about mental health, anxiety, pressure, and healing.
I’ve started unlearning the idea that vulnerability is weakness. In truth, it’s a bridge—and one that brings people closer.
5. You’re Never Too Old to Begin Again
In the Gulf, it’s common to feel the pressure of hitting milestones early—graduate, marry, build a career, invest. But Gen-Z reminds me that life isn’t a race.
I’ve seen 22-year-olds start a business, learn new languages, or launch community projects online—fearlessly. They pivot when they feel disconnected, and they start over when necessary.
Their message is clear: your age doesn’t define your potential. Your mindset does.
6. Use the Internet with Intention
Millennials saw the internet evolve from MSN to Snapchat. For us, it was entertainment, connection, and sometimes escape.
Gen-Z treats it more like a tool. They know when to log off. They’re quick to call out toxic content, curate their digital space, and use online platforms for real-world impact.
Watching them has made me rethink my screen time, digital habits, and even the voices I follow. Less noise, more purpose.
Final Thoughts
In this fast-moving region where tradition meets innovation every day, I’ve found that there’s immense value in bridging generational perspectives. Spending time with Gen-Z has reminded me to unlearn, relearn, and grow—with intention.
They’ve taught me that real connection trumps perfection. That boundaries are healthy. That talking about what matters—whether it’s money, mental health, or identity—is not just important, but necessary.
As a millennial from the Gulf, I bring my own strengths to the table. But it turns out, the younger crowd has plenty of wisdom too—and if we’re open to it, they just might teach us how to live with more honesty, courage, and clarity.
So to my Gen-Z friends: shukran. You’ve been a breath of fresh air—and I’m better for it.
